While we want to honor our soul contracts and life lessons, sometimes they can create so much hardship and suffering that breaking a contract or stopping a lesson may be appropriate so we don't lose our sanity and ability to function in the world. Here's a simple process for terminating a soul contract or lesson that you can do without anyone's help.

How much of our life is planned before birth? How much of it is shaped by Free Will choices we make along the way? Are big traumas and important relationships always pre-destined? Is it possible to make choices that go against our pre-birth life plan? Can other people interfere with our path?

What are soul contracts? Why do we make them? Past-life versus present-life contracts, beneficial versus negative ones. Does everyone have a life partner contract? Can we sever contracts if we want to?

In the heat of the moment, we take another person's negative /hateful /manipulative /abusive actions towards us quite literally.  ("He/she is a jerk!")

However, when we dig a little deeper, we can uncover some not-so-obvious reasons for why someone is such a negative presence in our life…